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“I thought *I* was good at saving money! Wow!”

That was the reaction I got when I shared with a friend about how to get everything you buy free.

She was amazed and I wanted to put it all online too, in a post, because I don’t think a lot of people know about these tricks and it can literally save you a small fortune!!!

How to Get Everything You Buy Free

About a year ago, I came across what I call gifting sites and I’ve become pretty spoiled. I simply refuse to buy anything now, which is the whole point of these groups!

They have these gifting groups in every city nationwide, and if they don’t, you can easily start one yourself to meet all your family’s needs (here’s all the details on how to start one up and what it’s like, step by step)!

The stuff IS free, so you’ll want to sanitize everything well before using it, as you would with anything you get used. Your results will vary, depending on where you live, but basically, don’t buy anything again!

If you plan ahead, you can save money and get a boatload of things free. Things you need to help your family. After that, what you can’t find, or maybe you simply can’t wait to score something free, buy it on sale, and lastly, pay retail.

Doing this will save you a FORTUNE! And if you’re thinking, ‘It’ll all be junk,’ I get it, that’s exactly what I mistakenly thought when I first started in the world of free stuff. But it’s not!

Some of it is junk, yes, but much of it is good, usable items that your family needs!

You can learn all about how to find these groups here in my post, How to Get Kids Clothes Free. I go into depth in that post and share all the ins and outs with you in detail!

In the year I’ve been part of this free world, here’s what I’ve seen and what you can get free and how…

Groceries

Groceries are SO crazy expensive right now. You can get groceries free with a few cool tricks!

Check out these posts to find the options that are best for you and your family…

Gifting groups – In free gifting groups, I’ve seen all kinds of food from turkey and ham carcasses (to make bone broth soup or split pea & ham soup with), to cases of green beans, protein shakes, vitamins, canned goods, spices, condiments, cereal, misc food giftings, soda, even restaurant coupons. 

If you implement all these tricks and tips above, you will be getting your groceries free to near free!

Household Cleaners and Products

Household cleaning supplies and household products can be so expensive and add up quickly. I never pay for these items. Here’s how!!

First, Grove Collaborative. In this post here, I teach you my perfect trick to never paying for these and how I beat the system. Secondly, gifting groups…

Gifting groups – I’ve seen new air filter replacements (and fridge water filter replacements too that are new), things like ice melt for your walkways, all sorts of cleaning supplies, cleaning rags and towels, brooms, mops, vacuum cleaners (regular and stick, even Dyson vacuums!), carpet cleaners.

Kids Clothes and Toys

You can get free kids’ clothes in a couple of different ways. I have a whole post on it here. You can also find free items on Facebook Marketplace, like leftover yard sale items and curb alerts. Another great way, and the best way, in my opinion, is in gifting groups. 

Gifting groups – I’ve seen baby clothes, kids clothes, teen clothes, young women’s clothing, all different types of toys for all ages, dress-up clothes, dollhouses, playdough, legos, puzzles and games (board games and video games), kids and baby books, kids room decor (like wall art, decorations, wall stickers, rugs, beds and furniture, lamps), art easels, ride-on toys and small rockers for toddlers, kids electronics (think: Vtech stuff), outdoor equipment like scooters, wagons, hoverboards, skates, skateboards. I’ve even seen a couple of jungle gyms, water/sand tables, sandboxes, basketball hoops, tetherball poles, plastic pools (small kid-size and the bigger ones you set up in your yard), playhouses, outdoor toy cars, and bigger things like that too.

Baby Equipment

You can get these for super cheap on Facebook Marketplace and when you’re done, resell them back so that you ultimately are getting the item for free, but I’ve also seen lots of baby equipment in gifting groups too.

Gifting groups – I’ve seen high chairs, bassinets, walkers, strollers, car seats, playpens, cribs, changing tables, bouncers, playmats, baby swings, boppy’s, bike trailers, even smaller baby items like diapers, wipes warmers, bottle warmers, and pacifiers. 

Adult Clothing and Accessories

These are fairly simple to get free. Here’s how…

Gifting groups – Both for men (ties, shoes, caps, and clothes) and for women. I’ve seen things like clothing (sleepwear, scarves, hats, bathing suits, robes, and regular clothing), shoes, jewelry (jewelry holders, watches, rings, necklaces, bracelets, earrings), even things like hangers (regular and for scarves or organizing hangers) to hang your clothes on. I’ve seen wallets, purses, belt bags. 

Essential Oils

I get all my essential oil products free. It kinda works like Grove Collaborative. Find people who love the essential oils, sign them up, they buy and get free stuff, you do too. I’ll have to make a full post all about the details of how I set this up so you can see it in action, and I’ll update this post when I do. 🙂 

Next, gifting groups! I’ve seen lots of essential oils in gifting groups over time, usually doTerra and Young Living brands. Be sure to follow the groups so you can grab them when they become available in your area.

Dry Cleaners

There’s no need to pay for fancy dry cleaners. Simply grab yourself some Dryel and do it yourself! It’s very inexpensive and I’ve seen Dryel in the gifting groups before.

Salon Costs

You don’t have to pay exorbitant salon costs to have a professional hairstyle. Here’s how to do it! 

Outdoor Items

I’ve seen trampolines offered for free on Facebook Marketplace, but be sure to check your local gifting groups too.

Gifting groups – I’ve seen large trampolines, outdoor rugs, firewood, tools (small hand tools like hammers, screwdrivers, and measuring tapes to larger items like routers and tilting biscuit jointers and even tool bags), lanterns, tiki torches, outdoor candles, garage shop vacs, umbrellas, golf clubs, car supplies (like tire gauges, emergency kits, windshield scrapers, and washing brushes), kids bikes, adult bikes (both men’s and women’s), power washers, and even patio furniture!

Beauty Products

There are a bazillion and one places to get free beauty product samples, so I won’t get into all that. Just run a Google search and you’ll find tons, but here are some quick links to some freebies that are going on right now (subject to change anytime)…

Getting free samples helps you save money because if you’re not brand-specific, you can never run out. If you are brand-specific, you can always try and find new things that you like!

You can also find LOTS of beauty supplies in gifting groups…

Gifting groups – I’ve seen things like lotion (Bath and Body Works, etc.), expensive face washes, nail polish, Color Street nail strips, curling irons, and flat irons. For men, I’ve seen shavers (electric and regular) and hair trimmers.

Misc. Household Items

You can get free yard sale leftovers or curb alerts on Facebook Marketplace and Craigslist.

I’ve also seen a ton of household items in the gifting groups.

Gifting groups – I’ve seen bedding, fans, small space heaters, towels, shower curtains and rings, bathroom soap dispensers, lidded small trash cans, bathroom scales, shower faucet heads, bathtub shower faucet kits, recipe books, random misc. office supplies (like staplers, pens and pencils, backpacks for kids, printers and ink, electric pencil sharpeners, binder paper, notebooks, crayons, color markers, art supplies), carpet cleaners, vacuums (Dysons, stick vacuums and regular vacuums), light fixtures, lamps (table and floor lamps), bean bag chairs, and birthday party supplies (decorations, gift bags, and supplies for the gift bags, etc.). I’ve even seen a water softener system!

Herbs & Veggies

The best way to get herbs and garden veggies free is to plant a garden. By doing this, you can get free food in abundance. You can trade your abundance with your neighbors, and they can share theirs with you, creating a diverse mix of foods for you and your family. Don’t know anyone to trade with? Create relationships within your local gifting group!

Gifting groups – I have seen all kinds of produce in season. This is a great place to start if you’re unable to start your own garden or to trade your veggies with others who also have gardens.

Electronics

Sometimes on Facebook Marketplace, they will have TVs but they go fast. The best place to get free electronics is in gifting groups.

Gifting groups – I’ve seen Google mesh systems (set of 4), digital cameras, Apple Magic keyboard and mouse, iPads, laptops, tablets, keyboards, surround sound equipment, speakers, drones, video game systems (and games), TVs, universal TV remotes, and TV wall mounts. 

BBQ Grills

The best place to get yard sales is to drive around and spot them outside of people’s homes, on the curb, with free signs attached to them. In Meridian, Idaho, we have a freebie day where many people leave free curb alerts out and there’s a map with the participating home addresses and what they are trying to get rid of. It’s called Trash or Treasure and it’s actually pretty cool. I’ve been able to find some really cool stuff on those days.

Another great trick is to drive around your area around 3 pm on yard sale days when people are closing up and don’t wanna bring the stuff that didn’t sell back inside. They often leave free signs and you can pick what you want! 🙂 

I’ve also seen BBQ grills being given in the gifting groups. For all these options, sometimes you’ll need to put a little elbow grease into the grill, either by way of cleaning it or repairing something on it. But if you’re consistent, you’ll snag a good one for free!

Gifting groups – I’ve seen all kinds of BBQ grills and BBQ supplies and tools being given away.

Small Kitchen Appliances

Never buy small kitchen appliances. In fact, I’ve seen large kitchen appliances given away in gifting groups too! Things like stoves, over the stove microwaves, etc. 

Gifting groups – I’ve seen juicers, electric griddles, hot plates, coffee makers galore, bread makers, toasters, and tabletop ice makers.

Furniture

You can get free furniture on Facebook Marketplace and also within gifting groups. Just watch for damage because sometimes the reason people are getting rid of the stuff is because it’s broken or chewed on by a dog or something. 

Gifting groups – I’ve seen bedroom furniture, dining tables/chairs, barstools, entertainment centers, couches, dressers, garage shelving units, rolling carts, recliners, coffee tables, bookshelves, desks, office chairs, and file cabinets. 

Home Decorations

You can score some home decorations in free yard sale leftovers and curb alerts sometimes, but the best place to get free home decorations is in gifting groups. My favorite home decoration I got was this really pretty, soft white furry throw pillow. It matched my decor perfectly!

Gifting groups – I’ve seen curtains, vases, artwork, picture frames, wall art and plaques, throw pillows, throw blankets, mirrors, candles, and candle stands. 

Gardening Supplies

Gifting groups are best for gardening supplies from what I’ve seen.

Gifting groups – I’ve seen tomato cages, gardening gloves, potting soil, potting benches, planter pots of all sizes, plant food, plants (both cuttings to start a plant and full-grown plants and everything in between), shovels, and hand tools. 

Packing Materials

These things are given all the time in the gifting groups and there’s usually not a ton of people who want those sorts of things, so you can score them pretty easily! This is great for you if you sell on eBay or ship things to sell! 🙂 

Gifting groups – I’ve seen bubble wrap, packing paper, moving boxes (including TV boxes and wardrobe boxes), shipping boxes, bags of packing peanuts, shoe boxes, and bankers boxes to file paperwork in.

Hobby Items

Gifting groups are your go-to for these things. 

Gifting groups – I’ve seen golf clubs, sewing machines, camping gear (tents, sleeping bags, lanterns, old pots and pans perfect for camping, chairs that fold up, etc.), art supplies (things like crayons, color markers, acrylic paint, coloring books, etc.), crafting supplies like yarn and crafting kits. 

Medical Supplies

You can’t sell medical supplies like wheelchairs, etc. on Facebook Marketplace, so the best way to find those kinds of things is in the groups. I suggest starting to stock up on all those things to be prepared if someone gets hurt. Grab a pair of crutches, a back brace, a hand wrist brace, things like that, just so in case anyone in your family gets hurt, you’re totally prepared!

Gifting groups – I’ve seen wheelchairs, bathtub handles, shower chairs, leg braces, hand/wrist braces, crutches, and walkers.

Holiday Decorations

You can score free holiday decorations on Facebook Marketplace. I scored an entire carload full of Christmas decorations last year after Christmas. Gifting groups are also a great place to check, but many times, it’s not good quality stuff. It’s just like dollar store stuff or cheaper stuff. Not anything like Pottery Barn or Balsam Hill, although I personally gifted a ton of that type of stuff away, but it’s just not common.

Gifting groups – I’ve seen Christmas stockings, gift packs/presents (unopened), tree stands, Christmas tree skirts, ornaments, nativity scenes, Christmas trees, outdoor Christmas stuff like reindeer for your yard and displays, knick-knacks, wreaths. They usually give a lot of gift bags, gift boxes, and tissue paper for presents in the groups too throughout the year. I’ve seen cards for various holidays and birthdays. They give some things away in bulk too, like I’ve seen whole 18-gallon tubs full of Valentine’s Day decorations or luau party supplies.

Luggage

The best place to get free luggage is in gifting groups. I’ve seen suitcases, both hard shell and soft, carry-on suitcases, travel bags, weekend / overnight bags and more, both for men and for women. 

Homeschooling / School Supplies

Before you go out and spend a small fortune on homeschooling supplies, check your local gifting groups and stay on top of it in there. All kinds of things are given all the time and there’s usually not a ton of people who want those sorts of things, so you can score them pretty easily!

Gifting groups – I’ve seen pens and pencils, backpacks, electric pencil sharpeners, homeschool flashcards, binder paper, notebooks, crayons, color markers, art supplies, craft kits, homeschooling books in massive quantities for all ages, kids reading books, and lunchboxes.

Lawn Care Items

You can score lawn care items free in gifting groups, but sometimes they’ll have like a broken lawnmower on Facebook Marketplace you can get to fix up. In the gifting groups, they are not broken. 😊

Gifting groups – I’ve seen lawnmowers, hedge trimmers, weed eaters, even seed spreaders, leaf blowers, and leaf mowers. 

Sporting Equipment / Sports Paraphernalia

You can score some pretty cool sports stuff in the gifting groups. I definitely encourage you to check it out for that.

Gifting groups – I’ve seen baseball caps, team shirts/sweaters/jackets, team keychains, tickets to sporting events, basketballs, baseballs, softballs, tennis balls, tennis rackets, baseball mitts and uniforms, sports shoes (soccer, basketball, etc.), frisbees, golf clubs/bags and golfing equipment, and baseball bats.

Pet Supplies

Gifting groups are the best place to get pet supplies free. Sometimes someone’s pet will pass away and they have things to gift. Sometimes, it’s just getting rid of excess. Either way, it’s a great place to start!

Gifting groups – I’ve seen collars, leashes, dress-up clothing, bowls, dental chews, cat treats, dog bowl mats. 

Kitchenware

On very rare occasions, I’ve seen kitchenware free on Facebook Marketplace, but in gifting groups, it’s always in abundance.

Gifting groups – I’ve seen muffin tins, hand towels, coffee mugs, pot holders, coffee mug warmers, and I’ve even seen a Stanley Cup! I’ve also seen water canning baths, steamers, roasting pans, utensils, pyrex glass dishware, cutting boards, storage containers, reusable water bottles (stainless steel and regular), knife blocks, fruit stands, spiralizers, cutlery, pots/pans/skillets, mason jars, canning items, drinking glasses, kitchen tools, and many other misc. kitchen items. 

Wedding Supplies

If you’re not married, start saving things for when you WILL get married now! Instead of waiting till the last minute. There are a lot of things you can gather now like ring bearer pillows, card holders, and things like that. I’ve seen a lot of wedding supplies in gifting groups. 

I currently have saved up just about EVERYTHING I’ll need to be married one day, including 10 full storage totes of nice, brand-name men’s clothes in all sizes (because Idk what size my future husband will be), and I’ve gotten it all FREE!!! I’ve saved out men’s wallets, grooming supplies, wedding stuff, just everything he will need and I’m saving it NOW, to be prepared. 

Update: (12/10/24) – I had to leave most all of the men’s things behind in Idaho when I moved to Oregon. 🙁 But what I did once, I can do again, no probs. 🎁

Gifting groups – I’ve seen ring bearer pillows, card boxes/holders, veils, flower girl baskets, dress swatches, wedding books, and even men’s nice suits for a wedding or church. 

I’ve also seen these types of items free on Facebook Marketplace:

 

This is not all I’ve seen either, but the whole point of this list is to encourage you to see that you don’t need to buy things like you used to. You can get just about everything you need for free if you are able to wait it out. Always stock up ahead of time, plan ahead for things you know you’ll need, make a list, and when you need something right away, ask if anyone has one lying around in the group BEFORE purchasing. MANY times people do!!!

Here’s an example of an ISO (In Search Of) post I created looking for 3 shelves. I was able to acquire three and meet the need! 🤗 

Just that one post alone saved me a good $100+ and all three of the people were super kind to deliver the shelves to me too, so I didn’t even have to pick them up! People don’t usually deliver the items, but it can sometimes happen. 🥰

Whether you’re preparing for an in-person or virtual job interview, being well-prepared can significantly boost your confidence and leave a lasting positive impression on your interviewer. Bringing the right items to your interview demonstrates your professionalism, attention to detail, and readiness for the job.

In this blog, we will explore eight essential items to bring to a job interview, whether it’s conducted face-to-face or virtual, to help you make a strong impression and increase your chances of success.

What To Bring to a Job Interview(In Person or Remote)?

Preparing for a remote job interview requires a slightly different approach compared to in-person interviews. Ensuring you have the right items at hand can help you present yourself professionally and confidently. Here are eight essential items to bring to a remote as well as in-person job interview:

Reliable Technology Setup & Documents:

• Why: Ensuring your technology is working smoothly can prevent technical difficulties that could disrupt the interview.
• Tip: Test your internet connection, webcam, microphone, and any required software or platforms ahead of time. Have a backup plan in case of technical issues, such as a phone number to call if the video connection fails.
• In Person: Bring a form of identification and any other documents that may be required, such as certifications, diplomas, or a portfolio of your work.

Copy of Your Resume:

• Why: Having a digital copy of your resume readily accessible allows you to reference it easily and share it with the interviewer if needed.
• Tip: Keep it open on your computer or have it saved in an easily accessible folder.
• In Person: Bring several printed copies of your resume on high-quality paper. This shows that you are prepared and allows you to provide one to each interviewer if needed.

Portfolio or Work Samples:

• Why: Showcasing your work can provide concrete examples of your skills and achievements, especially important for creative or technical roles.
• Tip: Prepare digital versions of your work samples or portfolio and have them organized for easy sharing via screen share or email.
• In Person: If applicable, bring a portfolio of your work or relevant samples that highlight your skills and achievements. This is particularly important for creative roles, such as graphic design or writing.

Notebook and Pen:

• Why: Taking notes during the interview can help you remember key points and questions to follow up on.
• Tip: Keep a professional-looking notebook and pen by your side to jot down important information.
• In Person: Bring a professional-looking notebook and pen to take notes during the interview. This shows that you are engaged and interested in the conversation.

Questions for the Interviewer:

• Why: Asking thoughtful questions demonstrates your interest in the role and the company.
• Tip: Prepare a list of questions in advance and have them written down or typed out for easy reference during the interview.
• In Person: Prepare a list of thoughtful questions to ask the interviewer about the role, company culture, and team dynamics. This demonstrates your interest and enthusiasm for the position.

Professional Appearance:

• Why: Dressing professionally, even for a remote interview, helps you make a good impression and puts you in the right mindset.
• Tip: Choose attire that is appropriate for the role and company culture, and ensure your background is clean and free of distractions.
• In Person: Dress appropriately for the role and company culture. Ensure your attire is clean, neat, and professional.

List of References:

• Why: Providing a list of professional references can support your application and show that you are prepared.
• Tip: Have a digital copy of your references list ready to share via email if requested.
• In Person: Bring a printed list of professional references, including their contact information and your relationship to them. This can be provided if the interviewer requests it.

Interview Confirmation Details:

• Why: Having the interview link, login details, and interviewer’s contact information readily available helps you avoid any technical issues or confusion.
• Tip: Print out or save the confirmation email so you can quickly access the necessary information.
• In Person: Bring a printout or have accessible the details of your interview confirmation, including the address, interviewer’s name, and time of the meeting. This helps ensure you arrive on time and prepared.

Conclusion

Bringing the right items to a job interview, whether in person or virtual, can make a significant difference in how you present yourself and your qualifications. By ensuring you have copies of your resume, a portfolio of your work, a list of references, and other essential materials, you can demonstrate your professionalism and preparedness.

Thorough preparation not only helps you feel more confident but also leaves a lasting positive impression on your interviewer. Implement these tips to ensure you are well-equipped for your next job interview and increase your chances of landing the job.

If you’re looking for remote jobs, there’s no better place to start than DailyRemote. So, what are you waiting for? Get started today.  And now that you know what to bring to virtual interviews, find the remote job of your dreams, start applying today. Join like-minded people in our

Music is a MASSIVE part of my life, it’s in my soul for sure.

And if you’ve ever heard this beautiful song in church, have IIIIII got a treat for you today!!! 💖

Now you can put the words of this song on your computer, phone, iPad, or social media and sing the song to the Lord in your heart every time you remember it with this really cute it is well with my soul hymn wallpaper. 

Remember, worshipping God is NOT just for Sundays! 💯 It’s about praising Him every day of the week.

It Is Well With My Soul Hymn Wallpaper

“It is well with my soul” is a beautiful song to sing to the Lord anytime you want! 

Grab the wallpapers below and encourage your heart and worship the Lord from your lips today…

Need help saving them to your device? Click here for the full tutorial.

Phone (1849 x 3798 px):

Laptop (2550 x 2048 px):

iPad (2550 x 3382 px):

Instagram (2550 x 2550 px):

Desktop Computer (2550 x 1435 px):

Facebook Cover (2550 x 948 px):

Pinterest Cover (2702 x 1548 px):

Enjoy!!! 💕🎁

 

Praying about and FOR your marriage is one of the most important things you can pray about. With 50% of marriages ending in divorce, it can easily become one of those things you silently don’t pay attention to, and then out of the blue, you’re on opposite sides of everything and can’t seem to come together to save your life.

Today, I want to share with you 30 prayers that will strengthen your marriage. You can pray these with or without your spouse, but take one prayer each day and repeat it month after month! This will really help your marriage.

Prayer is such a powerful thing. No longer do we need to go to a priest like in the Bible days before we got the Holy Spirit inside of us to talk to God. We can access Him anytime and we should take advantage of that privilege as much as humanly possible.

30 Days of Prayer to Strengthen Your Marriage

I hope that these prayers bless you as much as they bless me. Let’s get started!!!

Day 1: Putting God First {Matthew 6:33}

Dear Lord Jesus, I desire with all my heart to put you first in my marriage and in my life. So often, I find my heart in the thick of the world and caught up in life’s problems and stresses and I pray that today, you clear the path in my mind and keep my heart purely and solely in love with YOU. Help me to see things as you see things and do things as you would want me to. Get ahold of my heart and deepen my love for you Lord.

Day 2: Arguing {Proverbs 15:1}

It’s so easy to get caught up in the heat of the moment and want to defend ourselves or prove we are right and fight for our rights, Lord. Please help me to mortify my flesh and realize that it’s not about who is right and who is not and that in an argument, no one wins. Both of us just end up angry and it hurts my heart to see my husband angry. My desire is to please my husband and make him happy. I don’t want to fight or see him angry. Please help our relationship to be stronger in you, and give us a renewed sense of love for each other today so that we may put this argument behind us and focus on you.

Day 3: Money {Hebrews 13:5}

It seems like we have so many money disagreements and can’t get on the same page at all on this subject. I pray Lord, that you bring peace, if nothing else, just bring peace to our home and help us both to be more flexible in order that we might serve you and focus our attention on what YOU would want for us, not our own fleshly sinful desires. Please help me to be more humble when talking with my husband on the subject of marriage and help bring peace to our midst as only you can.

Day 4: Respect {Ephesians 5:33}

Lord, I know that my husband seeks for me to respect him more than he cares if I love him! That’s how important respect is to a man and I just desire so much Lord to respect him. He’s done something lately that makes me not trust him and hurts my respect for him. He hasn’t necessarily earned my respect in this way and even though he hasn’t Lord, I pray that you’ll help me to look past that, look past the mistakes and just focus my heart and soul on you and your command to me to respect my husband. Please, Lord, give me a respect for my husband that he would appreciate and enjoy.

Day 5: Communication {Ephesians 4:29}

Lord, lately we have not been placing as much time into our communication. It is more rushed and blunt, rather than caring, loving, and thoughtful. Lord, if you would please, please help us to take more time to really connect and communicate. Help us to value communicating more and to spend more time together talking. Talking about life, about love, about the children, finances, everything Lord. Provide us with unity in our home and wholesome speech on our tongues that we may glorify you this day and forevermore.

Day 6: Faithfulness {Proverbs 3:3-4}

Lord, so often my love for my husband is not bound up in steadfast love and faithfulness. I admit that I struggle with being faithful and consistent in everything I do and I desire so much to be more faithful in my heart and life. Help me today to commit to my husband, more of my heart, in order that he may have more and more of me as I yield my spirit to you and my heart to him.

Day 7: Intimacy {Song of Solomon 1-8}

Intimacy is such a delicate and precious thing. To my husband, being intimate means something different than it means to me. To me, I want us to be more intimate in a more gentle and serene way. I pray Lord today that you help my husband be freer and know that it’s okay to be tender with me. The world chokes these virtues out of him, but Lord, please put them back in. Help us to be more intimate, not just sexual activities, but more intimate in our hearts Lord as we seek to honor and please you in our marriage.

Day 8: Keeping Our Priorities Right {Ephesians 5:22-25}

Lord, we know from Scripture the order of relationships is that you are first (Deuteronomy 6:5) and then next is my spouse (Ephesians 5:22-25), however sometimes I admit, I don’t always put him as first after You. Sometimes the world gets in the way, my flesh. I want to be first. It’s just not easy to always be faithful thinking of his needs above my own. I’m selfish and fleshly and want to put my desires ahead of his needs and this can’t be. Lord, please give me a more genuine, fruit-filled love for my husband so that I can keep HIM as the second priority in my life. I desire it so desperately, but sometimes, it’s just so hard and I need your help to be better at it.

Day 9: Genuine Love {John 13:35}

There are so many types of love, Lord. There’s agape love, Your love for all of us, unconditional, sacrificial, and pure. There’s Philia love, a brotherly love. A love you feel for a friend or brother in Christ. There’s Eros, a romantic and passionate love, and lastly, there’s Storge, a family love. Love that’s built on empathy. Lord, I don’t have ALL these types of love for my husband. I would love to be able to have all four types of love to and for my husband and I ask that you give me more of the ones that I need in order to be a better wife. In order that I love my husband more perfectly as you love us, Lord. Please give me more genuine love, more of all four types of love for my husband. Fill me more with empathy, with romance and passion, with a love that is his because he’s my best friend and an unconditional, sacrificial love. Fill me with all four types of love for my husband.

Day 10: Integrity {Proverbs 10:9}

Integrity is one of the most important things you can have in ANY relationship and within my marriage is no different. My husband and I are so full of integrity and I know that you notice, but I pray that you grow us even MORE in our integrity with one another and also in our dealings apart. When we are tempted to not do something that is right, when we are tempted to sell out, please maintain our integrity and help us to be the people that you desire.

Day 11: Being Kind {Galatians 6:9-10}

My husband is amazingly kind to me and to others. He is someone really special to watch in this area and I pray, Lord, that you make me more like him in this way. It’s one of the things that I just really treasure about him so much. Please grow me to be more kind and loving, gentle and meek. Taking every thought captive and asking myself if it is kind before I speak it. In this way, you are glorified when I am kind to my family.

Day 12: Forgiveness {Ephesians 4:32}

There are days where I just do not want to forgive my husband. He’s done something wrong, he knows it, I know it, and he’s unwilling to admit he’s doing anything at all. It’s so frustrating to my heart and I just, in my own sin nature, do not want to forgive him. Please Lord, will you help that stubborn pride in me? Help me to love my husband more, to be a woman who is quick to forgive and show mercy and grace as you continually show ME!

Day 13: Patience {Romans 12:12}

Dear Lord, you know how much I struggle with patience sometimes. It’s so tough for me to be patient. I can’t do this alone and I pray that you help me be more patient with my entire family. Help me remember that my kids are just kids and that I can’t expect perfection from them. Help me to be more patient and loving with my husband, showing him grace when he needs it as he is so kind and loving and gentle with ME. Help our entire family to be more patient with one another, Lord.

Day 14: Teamwork {Ecclesiastes 4:9-12}

One of the most common things amongst married women is that we tend to forget how IMPORTANT it is to work as a team. We get so focused, Lord, on the daily grind and often are unappreciative of our spouses and the support that they give us. As a single mom, now I do 100% of EVERYTHING. I have absolutely no help in the husband department and I see just how vital the husband’s role is, how much he helps (even if we think he does nothing; trust me, he’s doing stuff!) and so my prayer today Lord is that I never forget these things. I never forget to show appreciation to my husband. I never forget to work as a team and to KNOW that we ARE a team! If I forget, Lord, please gently remind me how blessed I truly am to have help!

Day 15: Honesty {Proverbs 19:1}

Lack of honesty can completely destroy a marriage. Lord, please help me to always be honest, even in the small and “insignificant” things, for everything is super important and NOTHING is truly insignificant. You tell us that if we are faithful with little, we will be faithful with much and so that’s my prayer today. I want to continue to be faithful in all areas, including honesty, even when I am tempted to tell a little white lie, let me continue to forbid myself to do it and not lie. Help me to show my husband that he is SAFE to come to me and share ANYTHING, even if it’s hurtful because it’s always better to be truthful than to hide or lie about something, in the long run, and Lord, I’m in this marriage for the long run!!!

Day 16: Support {Ecclesiastes 4:12}

I want to invest in you more and more. I want to be more of a mission for you and help others see you through me. In order to serve you more, Lord, I need help. I need more support. I can’t do it all by myself and I pray that my husband supports me more, emotionally. I pray also that I am not found hypocritical in this area but that I am fully, 100% supporting him as well, emotionally and spiritually. Help us to be united, a team, fully supporting each other and our love for you, Lord.

Day 17: Commitment {Numbers 30:2}

Every day I seek to honor you. I wake up and I read my Bible, seeking your will, seeking to be used by you. It’s a huge commitment that I have made to you, but I wonder to myself, how much am I also committed to my husband in the same way? Do I wake up in the morning and think to myself, “How can I serve my husband today? How can I show my love and commitment to him more this day?” I fully admit that I don’t and I pray that you help me to change that. Help me to value more and more, each day, my commitment, love, and servitude to my husband.

Day 18: Compassion {Colossians 3:12-13}

It’s not always easy to show compassion. Sometimes I feel like my husband has done something wrong to me. He’s hurt me, and I just don’t WANT to show compassion and grace to him. I want to be angry. I feel like I have a right to BE angry, Lord. But even if there is a right to be angry, I know that I still need to show grace and compassion to my husband and I pray that you soften and change my heart. Help me to want to be more compassionate toward my husband’s shortcomings as he is SO fantastically great at being compassionate with mine!

Day 19: Positivity {Ephesians 5:20}

I have been so negative lately. It seems like everything is going wrong and there are trials and temptations everywhere. I get frustrated with life. I get frustrated in my marriage. I get frustrated with myself. Please Lord, help me to be more positive. I know that it starts with being content and so I pray that you just help me to be more content in my life. Help me to see more of the beauty and less of the pain. Help me to be a more positive, caring, and encouraging person, not only for my husband and family but also in my spirit towards the world. For I am your child, your ambassador, and when people see me miserable, it does NOT glorify you or attract others TO you. Help me to be more positive so that I may be used more by you, both in my marriage and to the world, Lord.

Day 20: Understanding {Psalm 119:130}

There are many times in my marriage that I just don’t feel like listening or I think I already know the answer and so I’m not listening as I ought to. Please help me to seek to understand how my husband is feeling more. Please help me to take the time to really understand him and his needs and desires better, Lord. You know that I am not a perfect wife, but I sure strive to be and I know that it all starts with a willingness to understand my husband. In the times that I am not feeling particularly willing, please soften my heart toward my husband that I may be used for your glory to show the world, your love through me, to him.

Day 21: Friendship {Proverbs 18:24}

Sometimes life gets busy, Lord, and we’re just not able to spend as much time together to deepen our friendship as I’d like. I pray that you help slow down our world in order that we may be able to spend more time together, truly investing in our foundation: friendship! True love is always rooted in a deep and lasting, intimate friendship. Please continue to strengthen our friendship and help us to know each other more in this way.

Day 22: Peacefulness {John 14:27}

Peacefulness is something that I so strongly seek and desire. It’s the basis on which I want my home to be grounded in. Lord Jesus, please help our home to be a happy hope, full of peace, love, and contentment. Help us that when we are feeling full of strife and enmity, that you draw us back to you, together, in order that we maintain peace in our home.

Day 23: Gentleness {Titus 3:2}

The world bangs our husband’s around and makes them feel completely inadequate when they are gentle, and yet you Lord, were gentle and meek when you walked the Earth. Please help my husband understand and feel like it’s OKAY to be more gentle. You are the good shepherd, Lord, please show my husband that he can also be a good and gentle shepherd. Please also help my heart to be more gentle and tender toward my husband, even in times that I do not feel like it. Cover us with your peace and gentleness, Lord, that we may be found treating each other right and with respect.

Day 24: Humble {Psalm 25:9}

Being humble is something that I really struggle with. The more that you give me, the more you bless me, the more I tend to think it’s because of my own merit or worthiness that I have something and I know that’s wrong. Please help guide and shape my heart and attitude to be continually humbled. It’s not bad to be grateful and thankful that you give us things, it’s wrong to think I deserve it, whether in my marriage or in life in general. Help me to stay on the course of learning the balance between being humble, but also, sharing how you’ve blessed me in my life.

Day 25: Cooperative {1 Peter 3:15}

Being cooperative is hard sometimes. I’m selfish, Lord, and I just want my own way. It’s difficult to see past what I want and to the needs and desires of others. I fall short in this way so often, Lord. Please help me to be more cooperative with my spouse. Help me to give more and take less. Help me to put his needs before my own and to love him more in a gentle and forgiving way. Help me, Lord, to be less selfish!

Day 26: Playful {John 15:11}

Life seems like it’s a constant barrage of to do’s. Day in and day out, there’s always something to suck our joy from our life. Please help me to continually remember that and to guard my heart and mind against the monotony of life. Help me and my husband to be more playful toward one another, more playful in life in general, to have more FUN, to do things, go places, and just adore each other and spend lots of time with each other in fun ways that we each enjoy. Help us to remember that life is not meant to work too much and that playtime is super important in my marriage. Help me and my husband to prioritize the fun in life so that we can continue to have a happy and healthy marriage.

Day 27: Flexible {Ephesians 5:21}

Lord, sometimes I struggle with being flexible. My mind is constantly wanting to think about what I want instead of what my spouse would want. Please help me to be more flexible and help my spouse to be more flexible too, in order that we may be more united as one than we are now.

Day 28: Polite {1 Peter 3:8}

Lord, I never realized before how important it is to be polite to your spouse. I always felt like it’s important to voice my opinion and let him know how I feel, not hiding anything. But I’ve realized lately that we can still voice our opinions but do so in a polite and gentle way. I pray that you instill in me more politeness. When I respect my husband more, I am more polite, so I also pray Lord, that you give me more respect for him. Then I can be more polite and treat him in the way that he deserves to be treated as the head of the household and fellow heir in Christ.

Day 29: Attentive {Proverbs 4:20-27}

One of the things that I value about my relationship with my spouse is that we are attentive to each other’s needs, however, sometimes, we both can be self-focused. Please help us to share common ground more, spend more quality time with each other and show love to each other more, focusing not only on the other’s needs, but also their goals, desires, and things that make them happy.

Day 30: Hard Working {Proverbs 13:4}

Sometimes I take for granted how hard working my husband is. He goes to work and works all day. On the weekends, he spends time with his family. He tends to things around the house that break. He’s the main breadwinner and he provides so lovingly and sacrificially for his family. But as the day goes on and the kids have made me a complete wreck and it’s just a hard day that I wanna pull out my hair, I’m tempted to believe that I’m running this family by myself and I’m not. Lord, help me to remember how hard working my husband is, in order that I respect and love him all the more for sacrificing for me and the kids daily. Thank you so much for giving me such a hard working husband!

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Are you looking for Christian writing jobs? Do you want to get paid to write for Christian markets?

Writing for Christian publications is definitely possible and can be a great way to make money writing.

There are hundreds of different writing niches, but writers often find that their work really shines when they can write about subjects they’re passionate about. For Christian writers, writing about faith-related topics can be deeply gratifying.

Christian writing jobs can also be surprisingly lucrative

In the United States, the faith economy is valued at approximately $1.2 trillion per year—more than the combined revenues of both Apple and Google.

Another perk about writing for faith-based publications is there may be less competition when it comes to finding writing opportunities. That’s because many writers overlook Christian markets, assuming they’re too small.

TIP: Remember that if you pitch a market on this list (or any markets), it’s vital to read the writer’s guidelines carefully. Editors take time to put those guidelines together to help you boost your chances of having your pitch accepted. If you ignore those instructions, your pitch will probably just be tossed out.

How much do Christian writers get paid?

The pay for Christian writing jobs can vary—as is the case for any market—based on the publication you’re writing for. You may come across outlets that pay low rates as well as ones that pay excellent rates.

When possible, try to get a sense of how much freelance writers are paid before deciding whether or not to pitch.

These publications listed below pay from $0.10 per word all the way up to $500 per article. How much you earn depends heavily on your assignment and what you’re able to negotiate

While this list is a great start when it comes to identifying specific markets to write for, if you want to write within this niche, don’t stop here.

Remember: If the rates you initially earn are on the lower side, keep pitching higher-paying clients and work your way up so you can truly make a living writing.

How to become a writer for Christian markets

In order to become a writer for Christian markets, you’ll need to have a relatively strong understanding of topics related to Christianity and faith. There are opportunities to write for a wide range of denominations, so if you’re a Christian there’s a good chance you’ll find one that aligns with your beliefs.

Christian writing opportunities extend into many areas of the economy, encompassing not only traditional outlets like websites and magazines, but also Christian businesses and nonprofit organizations. In fact, about 40% of the top charities in the U.S are faith-based.

Opportunities abound, so keep pitching.

Christian writing jobs and publications to pitch right now

Looking for Christian writing jobs? Check out this list of Christian publications that pay freelance writers.

1. America Magazine

America Magazine is a weekly print publication that also features online content. They focus on providing a Catholic perspective on faith and culture topics, including political, economic, and social issues.

This outlet accepts pitches for feature-length articles (2,500 words or less), personal essays (up to 1,500 words), and shorter opinion essays. They also publish poetry.

Contact: Read the submission guidelines and submit your query on the submission page

Rate: reportedly $0.25/word and up

2. Guideposts

Guideposts magazine features true, first-person stories about everyday people who have been changed by an experience they’ve had. They publish both shorter features (300-600 words) and full-length stories up to 1,500 words.

Review the writer’s guidelines and pitch a relevant personal experience story.

Contact: Send a message to editor Colleen Hughes or editor-in-chief Edward Grinnan.

Rate: $25-$500

3. Charisma

Charisma is a monthly digital and print publication geared toward charismatic/spirit-filled Christians. They publish articles that highlight particular authors, artists, and ministries; reviews of newly published books, music, or movies; and in-depth feature stories of up to 2,600 words.

Most articles are assigned, but the editors occasionally accept freelance pitches. All prospective writers are asked to first become familiar with the magazine by reading through at least one to two recent issues.

Contact: Send an email to managing editor Christine Johnson.

Rate: Unspecified

4. Chicken Soup for the Soul

Chicken Soup for the Soul is a book series that publishes about a dozen new trade paperback books annually. Their purpose is to share short stories that are both hopeful and inspirational.

The editor is especially looking for powerful stories about people performing an act of love, service, or courage for another person. Stories cannot exceed 1,200 words.

Review the writer’s guidelines and story topic suggestions and pay close attention to the deadlines for each submission category.

Contact: Email editor-in-chief Amy Newmark.

Rate: $200 plus 10 free copies of the book

5. The Christian Century

The Christian Century is a biweekly ecumenical magazine that primarily covers topics relating to theology, human rights, poverty, international relations, and economic justice. Content is published in both print format and online.

The editors emphasize that their content is geared toward a progressive Christian audience that seeks in-depth analysis and critical perspectives.

Contact: Tweet managing editor Steve Thorngate.

Rate: $100-$300 per 1,500-3,000-word article

6. Christianity Today

Christianity Today is one of the most popular Christian magazines on the market, reaching millions of readers every month. While the majority of articles are written by regular contributors or staff writers, they do accept freelance pitches. The editors usually consider profiles, feature stories, interviews, opinion pieces, and book reviews. All articles should contain a combination of research, reporting, and biblical analysis.

Contact: Email editor-in-chief Daniel Harrell.

Rate: Varies; pays on acceptance

7. Homeschooling Today

Homeschooling Today is a magazine geared toward providing encouragement and helpful tools for homeschooling parents. It’s published quarterly in both print and digital formats. This pub doesn’t accept queries, so you’ll need to email the editor your written manuscript as an attachment with “Article Submission” written in the subject line.

The editors look for feature articles (900-1,200 words) about a specific topic relating to homeschooling or unit study. They also seek articles that provide encouragement, feature an interview, or share helpful information about overcoming homeschool-related challenges.

Contact: Email editor Ashley Wiggers.

Rate: $0.10/word

8. Light + Life Magazine

Light + Life is a monthly print and digital magazine affiliated with the Free Methodist denomination. It aims to provide relevant news and inspiration and offer faith to unbelievers.

This publication focuses on monthly themes, and your pitch will generally need to align with them in order to be accepted. Contact the editor to find out what the upcoming themes will be.

Contact: Email editor Jeff Finley

Rate: $100 for feature articles

9. The Light Magazine

The Light Magazine is a monthly Canadian publication geared toward the Christian community in Greater Vancouver. They seek to inspire faith in everyday life and publish articles about parenting, travel, senior life, and Christian living.

The editors generally prefer pitches from writers who live in Canada or have Canadian experience.

Contact: Email editor Steve Almond.

Rate: $0.10/word

10. Power for Living

Power for Living is an eight-page weekly publication geared toward Christian adults aged 50 and older. Its focus is on providing encouragement and insights on faith-related issues pertaining to topics like relationships, parenting or grandparenting, careers, health, and personal growth.

Contact: Email managing editor Karen Bouchard.

Rate: $375 for feature articles

11. Presbyterians Today

Presbyterians Today is a bimonthly print and digital magazine that covers a wide range of topics pertaining to the Presbyterian church. It especially seeks to explore issues relating to faith and life. The editors look for articles about topics like theology, the church’s role in society, and Bible study. They also often publish profiles.

Your pitch will have a better chance of being accepted if you can provide samples of other published writing.

Contact: Email editor Donna Frischnecht Jackson.

Rate: $75-$300

12. Relevant

Relevant runs a bi-monthly magazine as well as a website, relevantmagazine.com, which features daily articles. The content is geared toward millennial audiences, and topics include faith, lifestyle, national and global issues, culture, and justice.

Relevant doesn’t currently pay for articles that appear on their website, but they do pay for stories published in their magazine.

Contact: Email senior editor Tyler Huckabee.

Rate: $100-$400 for print features

13. St. Anthony Messenger

St. Anthony Messenger is a family-focused Catholic magazine, published in digital and print formats, with a primary audience of women ages 40-70. They aim to offer inspiration to their readers and publish articles about topics such as spiritual growth, education, marriage, family, and social issues.

Send a pitch with a proposed topic and include your intended sources as well as details about your qualifications.

Contact: Email executive editor Christopher Heffron.

Rate: $0.20/word

14. Today’s Christian Living

Today’s Christian Living is a bimonthly print and digital magazine geared toward a general Christian audience. The focus is on providing articles that encourage readers to fulfill their God-given calling. They publish personality and ministry profiles, personal stories, inspirational pieces, and short humorous anecdotes.

Note that this mag prefers to receive manuscripts as attachments rather than queries.

Contact: Email editor Dan Brownell.

Rate: $25-$150

15. U.S Catholic

U.S Catholic is a monthly print magazine geared toward a general Catholic audience. The editors look for feature articles between 2,500-3,500 words that offer in-depth analysis of relevant issues. They also publish essays that contain reflections or opinions on topics that impact the everyday lives of Catholics.

Contact: Email managing editor Emily Sanna.

Rate: $75-$500

16. Vibrant Life

Vibrant Life is a print magazine geared toward Seventh Day Adventists. It provides articles focused on maintaining physical, spiritual, and mental wellbeing from a Christian perspective. The editors especially look for how-to articles, profiles, interviews, and personal experience stories related to health, nutrition, and exercise.

Note that while Vibrant Life covers health and wellness issues, all articles are expected to be written in an informal, interesting tone-and they shouldn’t contain complicated scientific or medical jargon.

Contact: Pitch editor Heather Quintana by filling out their pitch form.

Rate: $100-$300

17. The War Cry

The War Cry is the Salvation Army’s monthly digital and print magazine. Widely read, special editions are also published for both Christmas and Easter. Their readership consists of members of the denomination as well as a general audience.

Common topics include parenting, contemporary issues, and Christ and culture. The War Cry also frequently publishes interesting profiles.

Contact: Reach out to editorial director Jeff McDonald through their pitch submission form.

Rate: $0.35/word

Ready to start landing freelance Christian writing jobs?

If you want to write for the Christian industry and secure Christian writing jobs, follow these basic guidelines.

• Identify paying markets you’d like to write for. Our list here provides a great start, but there are also many faith-based businesses and nonprofit organizations that hire writers to help them reach their content development goals
• Familiarize yourself with the publication before you pitch. As a general rule of thumb, you should plan to read through at least 1-2 issues of any print or digital mag you’re hoping to contribute to. To pitch a website or blog, take time to read through recent blog posts and make sure you don’t pitch a topic that’s already been covered
• Follow the guidelines. In many cases, editors won’t even consider a pitch unless the writer has followed the directions laid out in the submission guidelines

Follow these general rules of thumb, and you’ll be well on your way to finding Christian writing jobs.

Christin Nielsen is a freelance writer based in Virginia. She specializes in writing for digital and print publications as well as nonprofit organizations.

Do you look around at others in your church and see them celebrating Santa and wonder if it’s okay for you to do the same?

Maybe you already celebrate Santa and are wondering if, because of your newfound awareness, if it’s still okay to celebrate this character at Christmastime. 

Let’s dive into the Word of God to find out, should Christians celebrate Santa?

Should Christians Celebrate Santa?

The very first thing I want to say is that the word Santa or a likening of this character is NOT in the Bible. Nowhere in Scripture is Santa named.

There is no law to celebrate it or to not celebrate it so right out of the gate, we must understand that it’s not a command to celebrate him or not. 

Therefore, we must do more digging into the Word of God to determine how to live godly lives. 

There may be some who have not read the entire Bible yet and more than that, no one who remembers ALL of it. There are others who are newer Christians. Some just don’t honestly know. I want to make it very clear that we cannot judge anyone else and their actions. Whether they do or don’t, we cannot judge. 

Why?

Because it isn’t a command in the Bible, it’s up to our own consciences before the Lord. The same kind of thing applies to the Sabbath day. Some take a day off and dedicate that day to the Lord, others dedicate ALL their days to the Lord and don’t need one day to remind them to do so, yet others, don’t take the day off at all, and some take it off but don’t dedicate the day to the Lord. 

It’s all according to their own consciences before the Lord and should be prayed about to determine what He wants YOU to do. Same thing here with celebrating Santa. 

For our family, I’ll let you know that we have not celebrated Santa. But that does not mean that it’s wrong or sinful. It has to be a family decision. 

So if the husband, for example, wants to celebrate it and the wife doesn’t, then she should submit to his authority in the home and celebrate it, because it is not a case of clear sin. Definitely make your requests and opinions be made known to him, but ultimately, if you are married, he has the final say in this matter as a family. 

If you still feel uneasy about it, pray! That is your best defense. Pray to God that if God so wills it, that GOD and God alone, change your husband’s mind and leave it alone. Let GOD do it if He wants to. Do not try to control or manipulate the situation. 

Ready to dive into Scripture?…

There ARE some great verses that can help us determine if we should or shouldn’t though and that’s what I want to discuss today.

1 Corinthians 8:4-13 talks about eating meat offered to an idol. In the church, they were torn between the two ideas. One wanted to eat the meat, saying that the idol is nothing so it’s not important. The other people were saying that it’s offered to an idol. Since God is a jealous God, He wouldn’t want us to eat that meat. It was used for bad purposes. 

The point Paul was trying to make in that passage is unity. On things that are not clearly defined in Scripture, it’s not a hill for us to die on, meaning, we should not judge others, just live your life according to your own conscience. Do not look down on others whatever they choose. 

I’ll give you a perfect example of this in today’s time. 

One of my good friends has a vineyard. She sells wine. I do not drink, nor have I ever drank. It’s just not something I wanted to do because it, in my opinion, it makes people fools when they are drunk. 

But the Bible does not say do not drink. It says do not get drunk (Ephesians 5:18). And there IS a difference and it’s up to each person. 

One person may get drunk after one glass of wine, others could have 6 glasses of wine and not be drunk. It really just depends on the person. 

Is my friend wrong for drinking wine? 

Absolutely not. 

Is she wrong for SELLING wine, knowing that some people WILL get drunk? 

No. We cannot control other people. We should use our best discretion of course, and not lead others into sin, but she’s not going around pushing people to get drunk. 

She is, one of THE most godly women you can meet. She’s not doing anything wrong according to her conscience.  Can me and her be friends even though we disagree on this matter (I do not drink; she does)? 

Absolutely! And that’s the point. We are to live in unity (Psalm 133:1). Jesus says, he who is blameless, cast the first stone when an adulterous woman is caught (John 8:7). The point is that we all fail, we all sin, we all mess up, no one is perfect.

Is that to be used as an excuse? No way!

The Bible also says to do what is right according to our consciences and do not take liberty for granted (Galatians 5:13). Do not manipulate your rights. 

If it causes another brother to stumble, maybe you want to drink a glass of wine and your brother is a recovering alco-holic, do not drink in front of him. Of course. We don’t want to lead others to sin (Romans 14:13). 

The same is true in the case of celebrating Santa. If I go to someone’s house for Christmas from the church and they celebrate him, it’s not really my place to tell them not to in some legalistic, judgemental way. Likewise, if I DON’T cele-brate it, they shouldn’t try to force their opinions on me. 

God gives us freedom and it’s about the heart more than anything. 

We should live in unity, not causing a brother to stumble, and deciding for ourselves and for our family’s what is right for us. 

The second thing to consider is that it does say in the Bible not to lie (Exodus 20:16; Deuteronomy 5:20). It’s in the Ten Commandments. Very basic principle here. Is telling your kids Santa sees you when you’re sleeping, accurate? 

Or is it a lie?

To me, I felt it was a lie and based on that fact alone, I don’t celebrate it. BUT, I don’t condemn anyone else who does celebrate it. In fact, I have Santa printables on my site, only further proving that it’s not something to die for. It’s up to each person’s heart. 

What is your heart saying? What is your conscience saying? Do you feel guilt at all?

If not, then celebrate it in confidence that it’s okay.

If you feel guilt, then don’t celebrate it, but don’t judge others who DO celebrate it. Same with the Easter bunny or other worldly things. 

Which brings me to the next point. Santa is a worldly thing. The Bible says to live in the world but not be conformed to it (Romans 12:2). Is your celebrating Santa conforming you to the world? Are you walking in the spirit or are you a worldly Christian. If you are conformed to the world because it feeds into it, don’t do it. If you’re not, you’re free to do it. But only YOU will know if it is or not! Again, no one can judge.

Make a decision for yourself, what is best for your children and your family and whatever you decide, know that God is looking at your heart. It matters far more to Him that your desire is to please Him and obey Him, rather than whatever decision you actually come to!

So, should Christians celebrate Santa? 

It’s up to each individual Christian what they want to do. No one can judge them either way. Find peace today in that. There are far more important things to stand up for, this is not one of them.

Bible Study (look up the following verses for further study):

• 1 Corinthians 8:4-13
• Ephesians 5:18
• Psalm 133:1
• John 8:7
• Galatians 5:13
• Romans 14:13
• Exodus 20:16
• Deuteronomy 5:20
• Romans 12:2

According to National polls, 80% of American’s claim the religion of Christianity, and yet the Bible is clear that the ones that find the path to Heaven are ‘few.’ It is the story of the wide and narrow gates found in my favorite book of the Bible, Matthew.

Now don’t you think, that if 80% of people REALLY WERE Christian, the world would be so much better? If 80% were truly saved, then Christianity would be POPULAR. Woah, what an idea! Instead, Christians are persecuted daily for their faith. Yes, even here in America.

I’m going to challenge your thinking today. I’m going to propose the idea that 80% of America is NOT Christian. The signs are there. I’m going to propose that the Bible is right…

When i was 8 years old, I accepted Jesus into my heart and got baptized. I grew up thinking that if i died today, I’d go to be with the Lord.

Was I saved? Absolutely not.

Because being a Christian is more than just saying a prayer, reading some bible verses and being baptized. You have to really mean it. And I didn’t. I did it to make my mom happy. She didn’t seem to like me, and I desperately wanted her to.

You see, when you come to Christ, you come on His terms, not your own. 

Sadly, if I would have died before I truly gave my life to the Lord four years ago, I would have been wrong. Don’t be wrong, okay? Many are fooled just like I was, but the Bible is true, and it says FEW find the path. This doesn’t really match up with 80%. Few is not the majority.

Below are a few questions to consider that act as a self-test to know for sure if you’re saved or not:

1. Do you have a hunger for God’s Word?

2. Do you WANT to obey Him?

3. Do your good works prove your heart’s attitude?

4. When you sin, does it upset you?

5. Have you given up everything and everyone in your life to God? That was a biggie for me. Hard to do apart from Christ and yet its our responsibility to give up everything for Him. Take up our cross and follow Him.

6. Do you long for Heaven or do you hope to be around here for a while?

7. Do you feel the Holy Spirit working inside of you? Training you daily to be more and more like Jesus Christ?

8. Do you love to be around fellow believers?

9. Has your life radically changed since becoming a Christian or do you still blend in with the world pretty easily?

10. Have you been persecuted? If you’re Christian, the Bible says you will be. The only variable is the level of degree of persecution. 

11. Do you find this excitement in yourself to tell everyone about Jesus? 

12. Are you willing to put God ahead of yourself?

While this list isn’t an exclusive yes or no list, do this your saved, don’t do it, you’re not saved; it CAN be used as a guideline to reveal our hearts to ourselves. We are so easily fooled, and we so desperately want to believe the best in ourselves and others. But does our lives, the things we do every day, match up to the Word of God? No one else can know your heart except you and God, and the Bible, for very good reasons, asks us to continually be searching our own hearts for hidden sinning.

This post hits home to me more than you know. Not only do I regret not coming to faith in Christ sooner in my life, but I also see it in my kids. As of right now, they DON’T have those qualities and they are not saved, which is sad. 

Which side are YOU on? Do you have peace? Are you 100% SURE that if you died today, God would let you into Heaven?

Don’t look now, but if your organization is trying to compete for talent in an already stressed labor market, your options could be why you can’t fill open positions.

In its 2024 Global Workforce Report[i], Remote.com found that employees are jumping ship at an alarming rate, and for one reason. In the past six months of 2024, 67% of US employers report losing their workers to competitors who offered what employees want – remote work options. Globally, that number reached 73% (in the ten countries surveyed).

It’s no secret that job seekers want hybrid work. It’s also no secret that employers are struggling to understand how to manage remote workers. That same Remote.com study found that 51% of companies surveyed reported that managing remote teams is sometimes difficult.

Yet in a market that has employees looking for a better work-life balance, learning how to manage workers remotely is essential to the health of your organization. For those who have embraced remote workers and have learned how to manage them, the benefits are clear; 37% have observed higher levels of productivity, 32% say that absenteeism has been reduced, and 26% have notices a higher caliber of quality candidates applying for openings.

Isn’t it time you embraced remote work? Hiring a remote worker to augment your current workforce is a great way to get the precise talent you need. Remote workers are not bound by geographic limitations – your best worker could be three states away or even farther.

Still, even the best workers need proper management. Here are some strategies you can apply to implement a sound remote management style or improve on an existing one.

Amp up communication. Your hybrid workforce needs much more communication than your in-house workforce. Give employees at all locations ample tools for reaching out – video, email, chat, phone. Encourage open, frequent communication. Check in daily with employees. Hold short, focused weekly employee meetings.

Set productivity goals. At employee one-on-one meetings, set goals. Create benchmarks, and talk about issues that could be impacting their work, be they professional or personal issues. Create a shared folder detailing goals and benchmarks. That’s where they share what may be helpful or hampering to meeting those goals.

Make a feedback loop. Listen to employee feedback on projects, concerns, or suggestions. Act on them. Have an online suggestion box where they can reach out and report issues or successes. Give feedback when needed, including kudos and thanks for a job well done.

Build teams. Celebrate together – milestones, birthdays, retirements, new hires. Hold virtual happy hours and parties. Share team member successes with everyone, be it small or big. Make your employees feel seen and heard.

It doesn’t take a lot to create a more inclusive, proactive way of working together no matter where your employees are located. Pay attention to the small stuff. Make sure to always be communicating. Create a remote/hybrid culture that includes a more flexible, engaged management style and two-way communication. That attracts top talent, and it keeps your employees happy and engaged.

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[i] Remote Global Workforce Report 2024: Flexibility is everything | Remote